All said and done we live in a family and when married our wife/husband is the closest thing we have in life. We all want to be happily married and have a prosperous life.
By looking at the design of the chart following is a highlight...
First house represents our-self who we are and how we interacts with the world
Seventh house represents Spouse, relationships and how we interacts with others
1st (First) house is opposite to the 7th (Seventh) house. That means they are totally opposite in nature and it is the mirror reflection of our nature which you are not aware and most uncomfortable with and your spouse going to tell you. By definition we and significant other is a balance that we need to achieve in life.
Now Imagine that we have to deal with someone opposite which is our own mirror opposite reflection (this may not be if there is a friendly influence) in opinion every day.
e.g You may have a desire and want to do something today morning... now your spouse want to do it in the evening or just don't want to do it or want to do it next day. How will it feel like.. it will be hard to take a totally opposite view of things we want. Since 7th house is also for partnerships we constantly need to work on... to come to common grounds.. if we want a balanced relationship.. like wise in some ways we need to do the same with the Spouse/Wife/Husband.
e.g You may have a desire and want to do something today morning... now your spouse want to do it in the evening or just don't want to do it or want to do it next day. How will it feel like.. it will be hard to take a totally opposite view of things we want. Since 7th house is also for partnerships we constantly need to work on... to come to common grounds.. if we want a balanced relationship.. like wise in some ways we need to do the same with the Spouse/Wife/Husband.
In some ways most of us constantly needs to work on the relationship, for those who have good relationships may be working on it subconsciously. For those who are having issues and hard times.. probably this should be an indicator to start managing the relationship with more thoughts than emotions. In Love marriages we bringing emotions first in the relationships , so it makes it hard to come to the common grounds.
Some of the things that i have learned with time is..
1) Be a good listener. Most of the arguments happen when one person does not listen/understand completely and start arguing. Try it out u'll be surprised that how many arguments can be avoided.
2) Life is a joint venture.. the more you stay together the more you will realize. Help where ever you can in some ways you are helping yourself.
FreeWill, Self Analysis
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